WORD FOR TODAY
Hello Wednesday! How has been your week so far?
For the fact that yes sounds positive,doesn’t mean one should always go yes to everything,everyone or at every time. No on the other hand, doesn’t sound negative all the time,neither does using it make you rebellious. Rather, yes and no are words used in decision making. These are words used in expressing our feelings in respect to an ongoing situation. Without them, we would have been on a one way drive in decision making, which would have been a dangerous phenomenon as certain right and privileges would have been robbed off from certain people.
Was talking with a dear friend of mine some time back and I was like,”learn how to say no.” Moreover i said,”Don’t be carried away by your emotion or theirs, or scared of what they might do to you, and give someone a yes at your own detriment.” Just because the person in question looks older to you, or is of the opposite gender, shouldn’t make you think saying no could be a disrespect to them,because if you are off age,it’s assumed you know your left from your right in decision making. Don’t put up with a yes iced with a bright smile on your face in pretence,when you know deep down inside you,your no is so loud,only that they can’t hear you.
Mind you there are some folks who are in a big mess currently just because they couldn’t say no. For some, because he proposed relationship or marriage to them in public, and didn’t want to shame him,disappoint or break his heart, they blushed and just went ahead to say yes. You can’t enjoy such relationship or marriage because that wasn’t your sincere decision. For some others, they became half-ass fathers just because they couldn’t say no to their libido. Some others couldn’t say no to their parents in deciding their choice of study or who they want to marry. Also, some are in the dungeon just because they were entreated by someone they had regard for to doing something criminal, hence were humble to saying yes even when they were being contradicted within.
So having know this, like James 5:12 says, “…let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay; lest ye fall into condemnation.” We all have an individual life to live, don’t let someone else’s opinion rob you off your beneficial decision,don’t risk spending your life in regret.
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