- WORD FOR TODAY
Hello Wednesday! Hope you’ve been having a great week so far?
*SUBJECT:* WHAT HAPPENS
Making friends is good,but when it has to do with you laying down your self-esteem just so you could be cocooned in a box that is fitly tight and choking, that’s when it is inappropriate. You need some prestige;it’s a relationship, meaning you two are supposed to complement each other or be reciprocal in dealings that has to do with such friendship and not experiencing parasitism.
Falling on every page opened by people just so you could get them to like you,is you putting yourself on trays of low self-esteem,you can’t be valued like that. You give them the eye to see you as worthless and the anchor to treat you as they deem fit. Serving yourself that way, makes them think you are cheap hence can be afforded by anyone. And for some who don’t go for cheap things, would see you as a pushover: “i can get it anytime I want.” For such people they only get to need you when they want something done, something usually demeaning.
I tell people,don’t push the lever forward when you already know it won’t be easy to take it backward. That is,starting what you can’t finish in friendship would be tarnishing after a close of such friendship. You have to know that not every has the eye to envisage your value without you wearing it. In such case, you need wear always so you help them see what you are at first sight,hence briefing and programming their mind to think of you in such a way that they can’t go below that subsequently. However presenting yourself with hopes they would find out on their own,na…! you would be giving them a “first impression mentality.”
It’s good to be simply, but before you loose your guard to simplicity,first know the person you are trying to act that way to. If it’s one you know wouldn’t mess things up,then go ahead, fly. But if it’s someone that would spade your esteem till there is nothing to spade anymore,then you don’t need to,rather keep your complexity.
*EXTRA:* Your self-esteem must first be healthy if you must enjoy a healthy friendship with people.
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